salam... i think its impossible to marry someone withut seeing or talking...communication is very important...motasefana familhaye afghan emrozham yaghantayesh da qarne bist zendagi mekonan wa baraye hawlade chod ihn chanca namethan ke codeshan hamsafare zendagi chod ra pada khonan...

kis

I think its not possible. I mean how you can marry someone whom you have never seen ihm befor. Sometimes you need years to get know someone because everyone of us has secrets in himselfe. When you talk to someone and get him know so its better than do nothing. U have to consider one thing u well spend your wohl life with this person! So it might be better to spend little time to get know him/her.

Well matty I dont know if arranged marriage is still going on in the west. If it is . I dont beleive in them and I dont think it  is right at all. I mean marriage is not about just money , good looks and satisfying families ...its about commitment... !!

* Why would someone want to make a commitment with someone they hardly know.  Even if anyone is involved in an arranged marriage , I think there are lots of ways to get to know that person.

awch how did i mised this topic lol

how can u marry sumone without known them, this is really hard and its not ryt. i tnk arrange marriges are ok noting bad about it but before u shod get to know the person, com on its nt about two days its about  alife tym and u dnt want to spend it with sumone dat u dont have no feelin for.

ya most of afghans go for arrange marriges and i dont really like it, they tnk aga bacha rish basha va familesh ok basha dega kole chiz shod sum of them dnt even care for the look 2.  vali hech kodamesh amera feker namekonan ke zendagi azi donafar asta ne az familayeshan ya az paysa. i tnk as matty jan said ths shod be chnage but i dnt no how coz az ma mardom da harjaye ham ke berasam baz ham amo kona fekri ma asta.

khoda jan dega khodish komak kona ke yak chnage beyaya