just out of interest, i want to know how many of you like your relatives, specially if you live in a foreign country and your relatives are back home or in another country, how often do you talk to them in the phone, do you really like them, do you have mehro mohabbat for them?

for me, i don't really know anything about my relatives, none of them live in london, i don't even talk to them in the phone, sometimes i forget that they even exists! but i am really worried, after all they are my relatives, i share the same blood as them, why do i not have any mohabbat for them, why do they seem like stargers to me?

I Live in  Kabul, afghanistan we have lots of relatives here the onez who we dont come and go i dont feel they are my relative and no mehr wa mohabbat for them as for foriegn have most of relative there even some do contact through email never wanted to talk them on the phone Aslan feker namekunam ka begana astan lol

M ehr wa mohabbat waqte zyad mesha wa dar dil mebahsa ka shenakht dashta basha adam dar ghari azo feker nakunam

Yes, you are right, magam, zamaana akher shoda, mehro mohabbat kam shoda mera, innit?

To be honest, I don’t really care about relatives,

However,

well there is a saying

AZ DEL BRAVAD HAR KE AZ DIDA BRAFT

THEY WILL LEAVE U HEART IF THEY NOT IN U SIGHT

--- quoted from "dokhtarakkk" -

Yes, you are right, magam, zamaana akher shoda, mehro mohabbat kam shoda mera, innit?

To be honest, I don’t really care about relatives,

However,

last night I was talking to my auntie in Afghanistan over the phone, after like 6 yrs, and when she heard my voice, she couldn’t speak she was crying,,, and I cried too
----------- Well true Mehr wa mohabbat kam shudah but again depends on the family if ure family is Gosha geer and they love the typical relaxing and EU style life then Khud ba khud mehr wa mohabat kam mesha agar zyad adat afghani dashta bashan feker nakunam btw it depends on person too if he is intersted to keep in touch, know and stay friendly with relative or Bezar ast lol

Family . . . . . .

Hm m m m m m m m m. . . . . . .

Cant live with them , cant live without them.

I love them all! They can be a handfull most of the time but I love them .

well I dont have too much relatives here in Germany. I love my relatives in Herat and in USA. I am quite busy in last months but I still try to keep in tough with them. I love them really. Unfortunately we live too far away from them. I really would like to meet them but I dont get any visa for USA and right now I cant travel to Herat.

I have lots of nice memories from Afghanistan with my family and relatives. Specially in Eid-Days or Nawros ;-) that was great. Here in Germany we are alone and spend the special days alone ;-(

Even in my wedding party there will be more strangers then my own relatives and family members ;-((( its really sad!