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15.03.2006 00:28:29 
      
Friendly786
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--- quoted from "Romall" -

@ Maryam jan...  tks dear..  Glad to see that u agree with me.


 @ Faro jan... hope u can read all dose what i said caz its in Dari & i know u can read it ...  our Princess is an Afghan gurl isn't it Faro jan?


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-----------thank u so much yeah  i can read dari (english letters only)lolz


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15.03.2007 22:51:08 
      
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 when an afghan girl loves an afghan guy. why is that their family has to make up things which doesnt even exist to make them seprate why cant they just see that they love eachother so much..

why dont da afghan parents care abt thier kids feelings ?


 DO ANY OF U KNOW WHY


----------- hop u read all of it friendly jan :) nice topic qandem, everytng romall jan and ajmal jan sais is ryt.because nawa days zamana avaz shoda everytng is changed and so people are changed az well. Besyari az bacha ha play mekonan va faqat yak tedade kameshan az rasti dost daran yak dokhtara. Az we can see and hear amroz yak bacha yak dokhtara dost medashta basha va vaqti ke estefada azesh kad baz doresh mendaza enane az o kho hech chez namera badbakht kho o dolhtar mesha( dokhtara mesle desmale safid astan ke aga yak lakam ham dayesh befta dega baz ba asani pak namesha qand) this is why their parents are worried and name bad bare khod va dokhtareshan namekhaya.vali enane yagan vaqt ham asta kea z rasti donafar yak dega khoda dost daran va famileshan naq naq mane mesha because they tnk everyone is the same.i hate this one why they tnk lyk this. Why they cant see their kids feeling? Bakhtere yak fekre kho zendagi donafara kharab mekonan. And I hate one more tng do u no sumtng guyz some families dnt let two people get married because of being suni and sheya do u guyz tnk this is fair ha? I dnt tnk so. Chura eqa kona feker astan e afghanhaye ma. Why they dnt get these bulshits out of their minds. It just kills me dega. Ok tnx for sharing such a topic with us friendly jan. boro ke ma bekhi got mixed up I just dnt understand some people.


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25.06.2007 01:05:49 
      
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lolz thanks jaan for sharing ur ideas with me

oh yeah i dont get that either i mean i get that if a guy is not muslim and they dont want thier kids to marry them that makes sense but just coz they are shia or sunni that doesnt makes any sense to me.. coz we r all muslim.. and there are some ppl who are just muslims by thier names only i hope u know what i mean.. but  they still argue ke oh that is shia or sunni who care they are muslim


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25.06.2007 01:42:49 
      
kabotareshq
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Ur ryt jan this is why I get pissed coz they shod be happy that their daughter or son wanna get married to a muslim person nawa days u shod see people getting married to non muslim persons. And they cme and mak sum staff that it doesn’t even mak sense. Boro gumesh ko qandem its beta if we forget it. E afghanhaye ma hech vaqt dorost shodani nestan this is why mamlakate ma emroz da e hal asta yaki das are dega mezanan be etefraq asta.lets chill I hate it dega it gets me headach when I tnk about it
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25.06.2007 01:58:44 
      
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I didn’t see this but yeah Faro Jan i agree with you so o ooo much i mean okay i know Pathans guys getting married with girls being English white heritage or Pakistani heritage. . .However if a girl falls in love and maybe want marriage o h h h toba the excuses they com up with " oh they wont treat you equal as ur a pathan and he aren’t. . . or you brought up different. . . or ur culture and tradition aren’t the same. . or full stop WHAT WOULD PEOPLE DAY WHEN YOU MARRY ANOTHER PERSON DIFFERENT"

What pisses me off is "WHAT WOULD OTHER PEOPLE THINK" and make the poor cow feeel guilty and not do anything about her personal preference. . . i mean the girls brothers are married to white/Pakistani / African girls but their sisters are forbidden!

I find all this melancholic on the pooor daughters/sisters suffering this


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25.06.2007 20:28:55 
      
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true lisha jan, i hate it as well, why shod always mans be the best, have the choice and do wat eva they feel lyk it but wen it cums to us gals everytng changes, they mak tngs up even if its not in islam.


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25.06.2007 22:18:46 
      
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danm lisha a agree with u .. and there are some cases that brothers can have gfs.. but sisters are even forbidden to talk to another guy.. i mean if even they are following islam then they should treat  both of them equally


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27.06.2007 18:42:19 
      
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Re: Why...

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 when an afghan girl loves an afghan guy. why is that their family has to make up things which doesnt even exist to make them seprate why cant they just see that they love eachother so much..

why dont da afghan parents care abt thier kids feelings ?


 DO ANY OF U KNOW WHY


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 well there is time in our lives that we think our parents are our enemy. u r going through a time like that. it is just a feeling for a few days. in long term u would feel how right they are and why they are doing this.. u would appraicate it soon bakhir...


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27.06.2007 20:48:58 
      
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