Temoryan agree with you

Calliguy right said Cali bro not just in our culture but in our religion its obligation on kids to serve the parents and the solution is stated in Temoryan's reply

Temoryan agree with you

Calliguy right said Cali bro not just in our culture but in our religion its obligation on kids to serve the parents and the solution is stated in Temoryan's reply

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I know what u r talking about Caliguy. I know we have to take care of our parents. I also will do it Inshalah but not do it in that way how you discribed

you said you work and have enough money. I will suggest you to employ someone to work for your parents. She can clean the house take care of your parents ect. . . . . Your wife can work and support you through your life. Believe me it would never work today. Even the girls in Afghanistan wont do it anymore. The time is changed today the rules are changed.

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 first of all my name is haroon.. u can call me haroon simply instead of cali..

okkk.. but how will u do it? how will u take care of ur parents?  u r going to rent or buy a sepprate house and put them there so that they can spend the rest of thier lives waiting and look at the door to see if thier son shows up while u don't show up there for monthes and days. and at the end they die in isolation... i don't call that taking care... it is more like a punishment.

i have seen afghans here in cali who put thier parents in nursing rooms or sepprate houses.. they don't visit them for monthes.. poor parents wait for them days and nights.. loooking at the door that his son or daughter show up now.. today.. this week.. while they don't for monthes.. they go to los vages, hawaii.. or to the girl's parent house.. doing thier nokari while thier parents die in the hope to see thier sons or daughters for the last time. that is what i call punishment.. our parents raise us and do alot for us and u r saying they do it for this day?

 i personally believe our parents deserve more than that.. they want to seee us all together living in the same house. they deserve to be taken care by thier sons not noker or someone who gets paid to do that..

 and u r saying that someone that gets pay to do that will take care of ur parents better than u.. then it is shame for u that u can't take care of ur parents while ur parents did it all thier lives..

i am not implying here that i will marry someone without telling them this.. before i get marry i will clear this.. that my life is my parents.. thier happiness and apperhension is my number one priority... if she can do that we can marry if not.. i don't wana ruin her life and put her in a relationship that she doesn't want..

 i much rather stay single and take care of parents my self then marrying some girl who treat my parents with no respect..