Merjan - 2 years ago

The Real Definition of Love


Love has many different meanings to all different types of people. There are many stages of love at different ages and different types of love. This is all about the real definition of love.

What is the real definition of love? Love has many different meanings to all different types of people. There are many stages of love at different ages and different types of love. My definition of love is caring about someone so deeply that your like would be very different with out them there would always be a little piece of yourself missing if they pass away or leave you. Your life is incomplete when they are away and you would do anything to protect them or to make them happy. When I think of love I think of a couple sitting by the ocean holding hands and kissing. The feeling of love is “that can’t eat cant sleep reach for the stars world series kinda stuff”. But this definition and the way that I portray and believe in love differs from yours, the classrooms, and probably many other people. “Love is an incredibly powerful word. When you’re in love, you always want to be together, and when you’re not, you’re thinking about being together because you need that person and without them your life is incomplete. 


My definition of love is what I personally think of it. The definition that I gave is what I think of when thinking of a couple (being in a relationship with another person.) This is my interpretation of love as an 17-year-old female. But when I was a little kid I thought of love in a completely different way, and when I am older and wiser I will probably think of love differently also. As an a teenager I realize that I have not experienced the real meaning of life yet and that I have not seen all there is to see in the world so how could I understand the “real” definition of love? How can anyone really know the real definition of love? I believe that love is one of the hardest words in the dictionary to actually understand and know the true definition.


There are so many different types of love. There is little kid love, teenage love, friendship love, family love, marriage love and parent to children love. All of these different types of love have similar meanings but have a little something different to be unique. Clearly when you’re a little kid you don’t really know whatlove is. Yes, you love your parents and your family and your friends but children don’t get the concept of actually loving someone. Teenagers and their concept of being “in love” most people think they are crazy because teenagers have no idea what love is. That is usually what is said when people hear of teenagers being in love. Teenagers believe they are in love after possibly being with someone for just a few weeks or months. And if you are in love with that person then why do you not spend forever with them? Another interpretation of love for me is having that person in your life forever, and teenagers fall in and out of love all of the time so is it actually love? Who can really tell?



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  • Friendship love is different for everyone;
    everyone loves their friends and would probably be lost without them. I believe friends are the purity in life and without them every one would be a little crazy. Friendship love is knowing that you will always have someone to call, cry to or just to be there for you when you need him or her most. I think that friendship love is one of the best kinds of love because you may fight and be mad but true friendship will last even if you argue and don’t talk for a while you can go back like nothing ever happened.

    Family love, everyone has family members and everyone loves there family. But this kind of love is very different then a relationship kind of love because your dealing with a different type of feeling, but it is still love. When people are around their families they are there real selves. No questions asked no one is judging them they can be free to be themselves. “Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind” (Dr.Seuss). Families will always love you for you. No matter what happens, how bad you screw up and the mistakes that you make your family will always be there to have your back. That is true love and an unbreakable bond that no one can really explain or come between.

    “The best love is the kind that awakens the soul and makes us reach for more, that plants a fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds.”(Nickolas Sparks, The Notebook) That said by Nickolas Sparks is what I believe is a deep everlasting feeling of love.

    Love to me is always caring about the person not wanting to be without them and not being mad or staying mad at the person. When does this ever happen though? Hardly ever. When people are in love they argue, they fight, they have disagreements and it is usually never as perfect as most people picture love to be. At first they might have a difficult time trusting the person that they love and through out there loving relationship they may have disagreements but it is worth it. Love is worth the trouble and the baggage that comes along with it because love gives meaning to life and without love life would be so boring

     

  • mashallah very nice definition merjan merci for sharing…for me its really hard to define love

    Love

    Love isn’t blind or deaf or dumb – in fact it sees far more than it will ever tell. It is going beyond yourself and stretching who you are for someone else. Being in love entails seeing someone as you wish they were: to love them is to see who they really are and still care for them. Love isn’t bitter, but you can’t have love without pain: sacrifice is the hallmark of love , the coin of love.

    Being in love usually is used in a romantic sense when you meet your significant other transforming a normal relationship into a deeper one without further interest in others.
    Love means that you trust the person, would do anything for the person, know that person is with you through thick and thin, isn’t afraid to be seen with you. make sure they treat you right



    Read more: http://wiki.answers.com/Q/What_is_the_true_meaning_of_love_and_being_in_love#ixzz17puR3moN

     

  • irony of the fate is dat a patient of love can not recover
    from its medicine murz burhta gaya joon joon dawa ki mareez e ishq pee rehmut khuda ki

     

  • love is money and money is love. Freedom is money. Choice is money. Money gives the meaning to every thing.

     

  • nice zabrina,

    ‘money gives the meaning to everything’,

    not true, u won’t get friendschip or family ‘love’ if u have money. yes there are people who like you because u have money, thats not love, thats not friendship love, they don’t love you , but they love your money. some people are in love with money, they think thats all you need in life.

    I think what you need in life is to be loved.
    To be loved for who you are.
    And to get, we have to give. so if we want to have a friend, we have to be a friend.

    We should treat people the way that we would like to be treated.

     

  • i write some of mawlana rumi balkhi’s poems on love. he says:

    Why should we tell you our love stories

    when you spill them together like blood in the dirt?

    love is a pearl lost on the ocean floor,

    or a fire we can’t see

                          but how does saying that

    push us through the top of the head into

    the light above the head?

                                          Love is not

    an iron pot, so this boiling energy

    won’t help.

                     Soul, heart, self

    Beyond and within those

    is one saying,

                 How long before

    I’m free of this torture!

    “Mawlawi rumi balkhi”

    translated by: “Coleman Barks“ 

     

  • Again from mawlana rumi Balkhi:

    Reason has no way to say

    it’s love. Only love opens

    the secret.

                      If you want

    to be more alive, love

    is the truest health.

    ===================

    Love is not condescension, never

    that, nor books, nor any marking

    on paper, nor what poeple say of

    each other. Love is a tree with

    branches reaching into eternity

    and roots set deep in eternity,

    and no trunk! have you seen it?

    The mind cannot. Your desiring

    cannot. The longing you feel for

    this love comes from inside you.

    When you become the Friend, your

    longing will be as the man in

    the ocean who holds to a piece of

    wood. Eventually, wood, man, and

    ocean become one swaying being,

    Shams Tabriz, the secret of God 

    Mawlana Rumi Balkhi

    translated by: “ Coleman Barks“ 

     

  • hur chaal ulti chalteeh hein deewangan-e-ishq
    aankein bund kur leeteh hein dedaar ke leeyeh

     

  • Again from mawlana rumi Balkhi:

    Reason has no way to say

    it’s love. Only love opens

    the secret.

                      If you want

    to be more alive, love

    is the truest health.

    nice one, and true 

     

  • MONEY JUST MONEY

     

  • ahhaha, whyyy???

    do you think you can buy love 

     

  • money can’t buy love, friendship, salvation or happiness

    love makes the world go round not money

    Love is priceless

    Money can’t buy us love, We can’t put a price on love because it’s not for sale

    by:unknown 

     

  • i post this tale again which i posted in another forum… it is not a joke. it has a wide philosophical and mystical meaning…

     دوست های عزیز حکایتی رادر باب عشق نقل می کنم که البته توهین به کسی نیست. این حکایت بسیار مشهور و میان بعضی ها معمول است. اگر قهر شدید، پیش از پیش معذرت می خواهم.

    در متون کلاسیک پارسی دری حکایتی را از ابوالسعید ابولخیر  در باره ی عشق نقل کرده اند. ابولسعید ابولخیر شاعر و عارف قرن سوم و چهارم هجری خورشیدی بود که در زمان خود در منطقه فلسفه و حکمت بسیار می دانست و شخص بذله گویی هم بود. روزی در صنف خود برای شاگردان اش فلسفه تدریس می نمود که شخصی با وارخطایی داخل صنف شد و پرسید: “ خرم را ندیده اید؟ خرم گم شده!”

    ابولسعید در فکر فرو رفت و باخود گفت: “ عجب است. این جا صنف فلسفه است و این مرد در باره ی خرش می پرسد.”

    بعد رو به طرف شاگردان اش کرد و پرسید: “ کسی در میان شما است که عاشق نشده باشد؟”

    یکی از شاگردان اش دست بلند کرد و گفت: “من عاشق نشده ام.”

    سپس ابولسعید رو به طرف مردی که خر اش گم شده بود کرد و گفت: “ برو ریسمانت را بیاور و خرت را ببر. خر ات پیدا شد.“ 

     

  • LOVE IS DEEF. LOVE IS BLIND. LOVE IS AL THE BAD THINGS EVEN DONKY. SHOW ME ONE WHO SAYS MONEY IS BAD.

     

  • i think you didnt go deep into the tale… think about that… 

     

  • The feeling of love starts from the eye
    And the feeling of like starts from the ear.

    So if you stop liking a person you used to like
    All you need to do is cover your ears,
    But if you try to close your eyes
    Love turns into a drop of tear and remains in your heart 

     

  • I just started believing in love xxxxxxx!

    Love is kind
    Love is harsh
    Love is wonderful
    Love is terrible
    Love is a cure
    Love is a sickness
    Love is LOVE

    Love shows the best in people
    Love shows the worse in people
    Love makes us speak truth
    Love makes us lie
    Love understands everything
    Love confuses everyone
    Love builds your life

    Love tears your heart down
    Love makes you smile
    Love makes you cry
    Love makes us cuddle
    Love makes us hit
    Love makes the world go round
    Love makes the world go crashing down
    Love makes things simple

    Love makes things impossible
    Love is always worth it
    Love is never worth it
    Love makes us smarter
    Love makes us stupid
    Love is enlightening!
    Love is BLIND

    Make love not war
    Make war out of love
    Love encourages
    Love scares
    Love is peaceful
    Love creates fights
    Love is soothing
    Love is tough

    …and above all
    Love is always worth it
    Because you become a better person
    Everytime you love someone
    From the simplest careing for a friend
    To the deepest desire to love someone til the world ends
    From the unconditional love of a child
    To the complicated love of the gods
    There is…no meaning to love
    Love means…everything

    No matter how much it hurts you, or makes you cry
    Tries your spirt, and splits your soul.
    Love is always worth it…because what doenst kill you
    Makes you stronger
    And however long it takes
    You will be, a better person because you lived, though love.
    Werent afraid to make mistakes, choices and try again.
    And…above all, loved someone no matter what people thought.
    You would die for that person…but you would also live for them.
    That…is the true meaning of love

     

  • akuuk waloon kee muqadar mein kahaan zouq-e-janoon

    ishiq walay hein jo hur cheez lutta detein hein…

    study the roots…u will reach to a better decision…

    love for money n making it ur center of gravity…has a history… capitalism or neo-colonialism is based on braten wood sytem…study n analyse…the sources of funding of IBRD,IMF,Paris club

    or other IFIs and the role of NGOs n MNCs in controling n influencing the policies of modern muslim world…u will get answers to many of ur questions.

    now coming over to second school of thought..who beleive in love as a powerful influence on their lives n surroundings….it gives u the ultimate success n divine knowledge…which is not taught in the universities n is non-existent in the books….it dates back to basra, konia,bhukara,herat,ghazni,lahore,bahgdad n ajmeer.islamic history is full of those mystics..using love as a powerful influence on the lives of millions of people n changing their hearts n minds all together…romi,shams tabrez n iqbal are few examples….

     

  • here is a question for all of you and it will compel you to think again what love is!

    If you love a person, you have a certain feeling for the loved one!

                                           BUT

    there is no way what so ever in this world to know what the other person feels about you,(No way what so ever, ever, ever )

    so believe what ever he or she says, and its quite probable that a feeling which is so so so fucken important for you might just be opposite for  the other. and the love can stand no more, it vanishes.its defeatedmiserably

    You might argue that love is trust,  but then I might argue that love is risk, 

    what ever adjective you associate  with love I can come up with an opposite.

     

  • در حریم عشق نتوان زد دم از گفت و شنید
    زانکه آنجا جمله اعضاء چشم باید بود و گوش

     

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