Love has many different meanings to all different types of people. There are many stages of love at different ages and different types of love. This is all about the real definition of love.

What is the real definition of love? Love has many different meanings to all different types of people. There are many stages of love at different ages and different types of love. My definition of love is caring about someone so deeply that your like would be very different with out them there would always be a little piece of yourself missing if they pass away or leave you. Your life is incomplete when they are away and you would do anything to protect them or to make them happy. When I think of love I think of a couple sitting by the ocean holding hands and kissing. The feeling of love is “that can’t eat cant sleep reach for the stars world series kinda stuff”. But this definition and the way that I portray and believe in love differs from yours, the classrooms, and probably many other people. “Love is an incredibly powerful word. When you’re in love, you always want to be together, and when you’re not, you’re thinking about being together because you need that person and without them your life is incomplete. 


My definition of love is what I personally think of it. The definition that I gave is what I think of when thinking of a couple (being in a relationship with another person.) This is my interpretation of love as an 17-year-old female. But when I was a little kid I thought of love in a completely different way, and when I am older and wiser I will probably think of love differently also. As an a teenager I realize that I have not experienced the real meaning of life yet and that I have not seen all there is to see in the world so how could I understand the “real” definition of love? How can anyone really know the real definition of love? I believe that love is one of the hardest words in the dictionary to actually understand and know the true definition.


There are so many different types of love. There is little kid love, teenage love, friendship love, family love, marriage love and parent to children love. All of these different types of love have similar meanings but have a little something different to be unique. Clearly when you’re a little kid you don’t really know whatlove is. Yes, you love your parents and your family and your friends but children don’t get the concept of actually loving someone. Teenagers and their concept of being “in love” most people think they are crazy because teenagers have no idea what love is. That is usually what is said when people hear of teenagers being in love. Teenagers believe they are in love after possibly being with someone for just a few weeks or months. And if you are in love with that person then why do you not spend forever with them? Another interpretation of love for me is having that person in your life forever, and teenagers fall in and out of love all of the time so is it actually love? Who can really tell?




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Merjan
Merjan 3 years ago

Friendship love is different for everyone;
everyone loves their friends and would probably be lost without them. I believe friends are the purity in life and without them every one would be a little crazy. Friendship love is knowing that you will always have someone to call, cry to or just to be there for you when you need him or her most. I think that friendship love is one of the best kinds of love because you may fight and be mad but true friendship will last even if you argue and don’t talk for a while you can go back like nothing ever happened.

Family love, everyone has family members and everyone loves there family. But this kind of love is very different then a relationship kind of love because your dealing with a different type of feeling, but it is still love. When people are around their families they are there real selves. No questions asked no one is judging them they can be free to be themselves. “Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind” (Dr.Seuss). Families will always love you for you. No matter what happens, how bad you screw up and the mistakes that you make your family will always be there to have your back. That is true love and an unbreakable bond that no one can really explain or come between.

“The best love is the kind that awakens the soul and makes us reach for more, that plants a fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds.”(Nickolas Sparks, The Notebook) That said by Nickolas Sparks is what I believe is a deep everlasting feeling of love.

Love to me is always caring about the person not wanting to be without them and not being mad or staying mad at the person. When does this ever happen though? Hardly ever. When people are in love they argue, they fight, they have disagreements and it is usually never as perfect as most people picture love to be. At first they might have a difficult time trusting the person that they love and through out there loving relationship they may have disagreements but it is worth it. Love is worth the trouble and the baggage that comes along with it because love gives meaning to life and without love life would be so boring

zabrina
zabrina 3 years ago

mashallah very nice definition merjan merci for sharing…for me its really hard to define love

Love

Love isn’t blind or deaf or dumb – in fact it sees far more than it will ever tell. It is going beyond yourself and stretching who you are for someone else. Being in love entails seeing someone as you wish they were: to love them is to see who they really are and still care for them. Love isn’t bitter, but you can’t have love without pain: sacrifice is the hallmark of love , the coin of love.

Being in love usually is used in a romantic sense when you meet your significant other transforming a normal relationship into a deeper one without further interest in others.
Love means that you trust the person, would do anything for the person, know that person is with you through thick and thin, isn’t afraid to be seen with you. make sure they treat you right



Read more: http://wiki.answers.com/Q/What_is_the_true_meaning_of_love_and_being_in_love#ixzz17puR3moN

faqeer
faqeer 3 years ago

irony of the fate is dat a patient of love can not recover
from its medicine murz burhta gaya joon joon dawa ki mareez e ishq pee rehmut khuda ki

jonoon
jonoon 3 years ago

love is money and money is love. Freedom is money. Choice is money. Money gives the meaning to every thing.

Merjan
Merjan 3 years ago

nice zabrina,

‘money gives the meaning to everything’,

not true, u won’t get friendschip or family ‘love’ if u have money. yes there are people who like you because u have money, thats not love, thats not friendship love, they don’t love you , but they love your money. some people are in love with money, they think thats all you need in life.

I think what you need in life is to be loved.
To be loved for who you are.
And to get, we have to give. so if we want to have a friend, we have to be a friend.

We should treat people the way that we would like to be treated.

cash
cash 3 years ago

i write some of mawlana rumi balkhi’s poems on love. he says:

Why should we tell you our love stories

when you spill them together like blood in the dirt?

love is a pearl lost on the ocean floor,

or a fire we can’t see

                      but how does saying that

push us through the top of the head into

the light above the head?

                                      Love is not

an iron pot, so this boiling energy

won’t help.

                 Soul, heart, self

Beyond and within those

is one saying,

             How long before

I’m free of this torture!

“Mawlawi rumi balkhi”

translated by: “Coleman Barks“ 

cash
cash 3 years ago

Again from mawlana rumi Balkhi:

Reason has no way to say

it’s love. Only love opens

the secret.

                  If you want

to be more alive, love

is the truest health.

===================

Love is not condescension, never

that, nor books, nor any marking

on paper, nor what poeple say of

each other. Love is a tree with

branches reaching into eternity

and roots set deep in eternity,

and no trunk! have you seen it?

The mind cannot. Your desiring

cannot. The longing you feel for

this love comes from inside you.

When you become the Friend, your

longing will be as the man in

the ocean who holds to a piece of

wood. Eventually, wood, man, and

ocean become one swaying being,

Shams Tabriz, the secret of God 

Mawlana Rumi Balkhi

translated by: “ Coleman Barks“ 

faqeer
faqeer 3 years ago

hur chaal ulti chalteeh hein deewangan-e-ishq
aankein bund kur leeteh hein dedaar ke leeyeh

Merjan
Merjan 3 years ago

Again from mawlana rumi Balkhi:

Reason has no way to say

it’s love. Only love opens

the secret.

                  If you want

to be more alive, love

is the truest health.

nice one, and true 

jonoon
jonoon 3 years ago

MONEY JUST MONEY

Merjan
Merjan 3 years ago

ahhaha, whyyy???

do you think you can buy love 

zabrina
zabrina 3 years ago

money can’t buy love, friendship, salvation or happiness

love makes the world go round not money

Love is priceless

Money can’t buy us love, We can’t put a price on love because it’s not for sale

by:unknown 

cash
cash 3 years ago

i post this tale again which i posted in another forum… it is not a joke. it has a wide philosophical and mystical meaning…

 دوست های عزیز حکایتی رادر باب عشق نقل می کنم که البته توهین به کسی نیست. این حکایت بسیار مشهور و میان بعضی ها معمول است. اگر قهر شدید، پیش از پیش معذرت می خواهم.

در متون کلاسیک پارسی دری حکایتی را از ابوالسعید ابولخیر  در باره ی عشق نقل کرده اند. ابولسعید ابولخیر شاعر و عارف قرن سوم و چهارم هجری خورشیدی بود که در زمان خود در منطقه فلسفه و حکمت بسیار می دانست و شخص بذله گویی هم بود. روزی در صنف خود برای شاگردان اش فلسفه تدریس می نمود که شخصی با وارخطایی داخل صنف شد و پرسید: “ خرم را ندیده اید؟ خرم گم شده!”

ابولسعید در فکر فرو رفت و باخود گفت: “ عجب است. این جا صنف فلسفه است و این مرد در باره ی خرش می پرسد.”

بعد رو به طرف شاگردان اش کرد و پرسید: “ کسی در میان شما است که عاشق نشده باشد؟”

یکی از شاگردان اش دست بلند کرد و گفت: “من عاشق نشده ام.”

سپس ابولسعید رو به طرف مردی که خر اش گم شده بود کرد و گفت: “ برو ریسمانت را بیاور و خرت را ببر. خر ات پیدا شد.“ 

jonoon
jonoon 3 years ago

LOVE IS DEEF. LOVE IS BLIND. LOVE IS AL THE BAD THINGS EVEN DONKY. SHOW ME ONE WHO SAYS MONEY IS BAD.

cash
cash 3 years ago

i think you didnt go deep into the tale… think about that… 

Merjan
Merjan 3 years ago

The feeling of love starts from the eye
And the feeling of like starts from the ear.

So if you stop liking a person you used to like
All you need to do is cover your ears,
But if you try to close your eyes
Love turns into a drop of tear and remains in your heart 

zabrina
zabrina 3 years ago

I just started believing in love xxxxxxx!

Love is kind
Love is harsh
Love is wonderful
Love is terrible
Love is a cure
Love is a sickness
Love is LOVE

Love shows the best in people
Love shows the worse in people
Love makes us speak truth
Love makes us lie
Love understands everything
Love confuses everyone
Love builds your life

Love tears your heart down
Love makes you smile
Love makes you cry
Love makes us cuddle
Love makes us hit
Love makes the world go round
Love makes the world go crashing down
Love makes things simple

Love makes things impossible
Love is always worth it
Love is never worth it
Love makes us smarter
Love makes us stupid
Love is enlightening!
Love is BLIND

Make love not war
Make war out of love
Love encourages
Love scares
Love is peaceful
Love creates fights
Love is soothing
Love is tough

…and above all
Love is always worth it
Because you become a better person
Everytime you love someone
From the simplest careing for a friend
To the deepest desire to love someone til the world ends
From the unconditional love of a child
To the complicated love of the gods
There is…no meaning to love
Love means…everything

No matter how much it hurts you, or makes you cry
Tries your spirt, and splits your soul.
Love is always worth it…because what doenst kill you
Makes you stronger
And however long it takes
You will be, a better person because you lived, though love.
Werent afraid to make mistakes, choices and try again.
And…above all, loved someone no matter what people thought.
You would die for that person…but you would also live for them.
That…is the true meaning of love

faqeer
faqeer 3 years ago

akuuk waloon kee muqadar mein kahaan zouq-e-janoon

ishiq walay hein jo hur cheez lutta detein hein…

study the roots…u will reach to a better decision…

love for money n making it ur center of gravity…has a history… capitalism or neo-colonialism is based on braten wood sytem…study n analyse…the sources of funding of IBRD,IMF,Paris club

or other IFIs and the role of NGOs n MNCs in controling n influencing the policies of modern muslim world…u will get answers to many of ur questions.

now coming over to second school of thought..who beleive in love as a powerful influence on their lives n surroundings….it gives u the ultimate success n divine knowledge…which is not taught in the universities n is non-existent in the books….it dates back to basra, konia,bhukara,herat,ghazni,lahore,bahgdad n ajmeer.islamic history is full of those mystics..using love as a powerful influence on the lives of millions of people n changing their hearts n minds all together…romi,shams tabrez n iqbal are few examples….

bareach
bareach 3 years ago

here is a question for all of you and it will compel you to think again what love is!

If you love a person, you have a certain feeling for the loved one!

                                       BUT

there is no way what so ever in this world to know what the other person feels about you,(No way what so ever, ever, ever )

so believe what ever he or she says, and its quite probable that a feeling which is so so so fucken important for you might just be opposite for  the other. and the love can stand no more, it vanishes.its defeatedmiserably

You might argue that love is trust,  but then I might argue that love is risk, 

what ever adjective you associate  with love I can come up with an opposite.

cash
cash 3 years ago

در حریم عشق نتوان زد دم از گفت و شنید
زانکه آنجا جمله اعضاء چشم باید بود و گوش

Merjan
Merjan 3 years ago

well yeah.. love is only beautiful when its from both sides.. when its from one side then love can be pain

Oh, innocent victims of Cupid,
Remember this terse little verse;

To let a fool kiss you is stupid,
To let a kiss fool you is worse.

faqeer
faqeer 3 years ago

even then AM seems like a desert….without water and mercy…a place with out any true feelings and true colours of love

faqeer
faqeer 3 years ago

love is the most powerful weapon on earth..it can remove…..tears….....fears….and….under wears..!!!!

Merjan
Merjan 3 years ago

I am in love I am restlessly in love No one has any acuity of my miserable heart Have no desire, but you, in my heart I am delighted, by a smile of you I long for beloved by you I am in chain by you I wish for your love. I crave god, to give my life for you. For adhering you, I split with all, So I could scarify my life for you Come and be with me Pass through horizon care like dawn breeze songster of the heart; sing like nightingale.

Merjan
Merjan 3 years ago

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=guqF_3smlBw&feature=related
Merjan
Merjan 2 years ago

love is when we fight till the very last minute just to show and tell someone how much we love them to live life without regrets

cash
cash 2 years ago

love is in me, if i love… love is me, if i want… love is everything, if i live

Kalife
Kalife 2 years ago

Love is defined very different from person to person… but no matter how exactly people define it, it has one thing in common for all of them:
Love gives live a sence… and that is beatiful.

NEVERGIVEUP
NEVERGIVEUP 2 years ago

Salam Cash Jan wala Cash jan bachesh ahle da ami zamana dosti wa Ashoqi Dorost namanda . agar yak dokhter sail konen baz 5 alah 10 dana boy friend dara wa amin taor agar yak bacha ra ahm sail konem baz ham 5 alah 10 dana girl friend daran .
ashoqi sabeq ahle da koja hast ka agar kase ka ashoq meshodan baz ta abul abad amrayesh yak jaa mebood .
ba sar khodem ahm ashoqi ter shoda az amo khater ahle ma az ami ashoqi 2 roza ankar kadem andewall .
wa man ba kasaye ka ahle da ami zamana ashoq meshan hch Point nadarom ba khater ka ahle yak andake bache pool dara did baz amrayash dosti mekona wa dost sabeqe khoda ela mekonan cry ba khater ami eshqo ashoqi .
w/salam Omid.Mazari….

musima
musima 2 years ago

“love is beautiful”... “the meaning of life” etcccccc BUT another reality is that itz just a painful wound …

musima
musima 2 years ago

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hhCafFsghso

cash
cash 2 years ago

nvergiveup bro… it is ur own thoght and experience… i have not been in love and dont have any expereince but still my views are the same about love…it is a holy word for me that brings sense and meaning for my life…the rest i will explain you…i am talking general about love, not particuælar between boys and girls…but still i believe that there are some poeple; i mean girls and boys, who believe in love…

fanky
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Merjan
Merjan 2 years ago

Yes Nevergiveup, unfortunately that’s true, but also agree with Cash.
there are some people that believe in eshqe pak, ‘moskhel dooriye delha nist, moshkel taqate delhast’.

Merjan
Merjan 2 years ago

bidoone eshq nemiseh zendegi kard, be eshq bayad hamiseh bandegi kard, adam dilish az sang wa ahan nist, behtar az asheqi to zendegi chist, salaam bar eshq

live-life-hones
live-life-hones 2 years ago

it does not matter, how far you are, and you know you may never be together, you may never have another chance to see each other, does not matter how happy you are,
and your heart may never wish to get together, cause your mind know it is impossible, but every time you close your eyes, you smile, because you remember some simple, silly word, of that person, and that makes your day, that simple thing will make you happy, and let you forget about all other life problems.
and it gives you energy to continue live, and smile because you know that person does not want you be sad, and unhappy. because you both even though not with each other, not see each other, and will never see, but but both know, your smile make other once day.
THAT IS REAL LIFE.
when each time you remember that person, and tears come to your eyes, and then you smile!!
THAT IS REAL LIFE.

I DON;T THINK SO bareach jan, IF IT IS REAL LOVE, YOU WILL KNOW IT, BECAUSE YOU WILL FEEL THE PAIN AND LOVE IN OTHER’S HEART MORE THAN YOURS. TRUST ME!
YES IT IS RISK, OF ALWAYS HOPING ABOUT SOMETHING IMPOSSIBLE, PEOPLE SAY THERE IS NOTHING IMPOSSIBLE, NO THERE IS.

live-life-hones
live-life-hones 2 years ago

it does not matter, how far you are, and you know you may never be together, you may never have another chance to see each other, does not matter how happy you are,
and your heart may never wish to get together, cause your mind know it is impossible, but every time you close your eyes, you smile, because you remember some simple, silly word, of that person, and that makes your day, that simple thing will make you happy, and let you forget about all other life problems.
and it gives you energy to continue live, and smile because you know that person does not want you be sad, and unhappy. because you both even though not with each other, not see each other, and will never see, but but both know, your smile make other once day.
THAT IS REAL LIFE.
when each time you remember that person, and tears come to your eyes, and then you smile!!
THAT IS REAL LIFE.

I DON;T THINK SO bareach jan, IF IT IS REAL LOVE, YOU WILL KNOW IT, BECAUSE YOU WILL FEEL THE PAIN AND LOVE IN OTHER’S HEART MORE THAN YOURS. TRUST ME!
YES IT IS RISK, OF ALWAYS HOPING ABOUT SOMETHING IMPOSSIBLE, PEOPLE SAY THERE IS NOTHING IMPOSSIBLE, NO THERE IS.

live-life-hones
live-life-hones 2 years ago


there is no way what so ever in this world to know what the other person feels about you,(No way what so ever, ever, ever )




You might argue that love is trust,  but then I might argue that love is risk, 


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MY OWN WORDS

it does not matter, how far you are, and you know you may never be together, you may never have another chance to see each other, does not matter how happy you are, 
and your heart may never wish to get together, cause your mind know it is impossible, but every time you close your eyes, you smile, because you remember some simple, silly word, of that person, and that makes your day, that simple thing will make you happy, and let you forget about all other life problems. 
and it gives you energy to continue live, and smile because you know that person does not want you be sad, and unhappy. because you both even though not with each other, not see each other, and will never see, but but both know, your smile make other once day. 
THAT IS REAL LIFE
when each time you remember that person, and tears come to your eyes, and then you smile!!
THAT IS REAL LIFE.

I DON;T THINK SO bareach jan, IF IT IS REAL LOVE, YOU WILL KNOW IT, BECAUSE YOU WILL FEEL THE PAIN AND LOVE IN OTHER’S HEART MORE THAN YOURS. TRUST ME!
YES IT IS RISK, OF ALWAYS HOPING ABOUT SOMETHING IMPOSSIBLE, PEOPLE SAY THERE IS NOTHING IMPOSSIBLE, NO THERE IS. 

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