dedicated to all mothers of the world
madar chi zibast naam tu
Ay naam tu angizaye mehr hast Madar
Lotf o Karamat awj Spehr Hast Madar
Dar Nazd hama Aziz o Deljoye Madar
Ferdaws Barin Ra Gul Khosh Boye Madar
Soorat Tura Daram Dar Basaram Madar
Ay Wojodat aftab,Toye akhtaram Madar
Gerya Kardam Dast Kashidi Ba moyam Madar
Khanda Kardam Boosa Zadi Ba Royam Madar
Darad Mashamam Boy Aghosh Garmat Madar
Tane Khasta Am Mohtaj Dast Narmat Madar
Daram Arezo Ke Beyayam Ba Soyat Madar
Saram Ra Begzaram Ba Sar Zanoyat Mdar
Kai bashad Ta Roayat RA Bibinam Madar
dawrat Begardam,Dar Pahloyat Beshinam Madar
Ay Behtarin Doha Goye Adami Zad Madar
Toye chashm O Cheragh Del Farzad Madar by unknown!
Happy mother day to every mothers around the world
Inahallah marjan you’ll be a mother one day loool
hahahaha yh i’ll be da best mum in da world inshallah yh ri88888888 ma ft lol
Haha describe your self as a best mother lol
0% rules, give ma kids 100% freedom! Very Easy goin nd be friendly lol
Happy Mother day to all Mothers of the wourld!
lolz marjan i think u gnna be abit tooooo easy on ur kids ey heheh such a cool mum… if i become a mum ill be the strikest mum on earth cool sxc nice bt stricked aswell lik rlly stricked towards behaviours n shit.. ma lil cousins they do wateva the hell they feel lik if i was their mum i would slap so hard hehehehhehe lmaooooo…
weeeeeeiiiii u gonna be such a bad mum lol bein’ too strick is a hrrible mistake,don’t discipline ur kids jst let them live their own lives im sure they’ll choose da ri8 path
nah marjan this world has changed so much.. u allow them do 1 lil thing the nxt day they come in ur house with a bf and maybe a kid aswell.. swear i hate western countries … its jst a shit hole .. swear nuthin good in here.. jst that kids do wateva the shit tey feel lik .. i would slap them kick them bash them to the max lmaoooo heheheh lmaoooooo
enaaaaaa i wasn’t takin’ abt that much freedom but i wont mind if they have bf/gf nd im nt gonna spoil ma kid that they’d do such a nasty thing! toba toba i’d never slap ma kids, slaping/spankin can physically harm kids whcih im sure u dont wanttttt, strict discipline doesn’t always works janoom,if you dont allowe him/her to party or anything they’ll do it behind ur back nd u’ve no idea its better to know what ur children r up to
that’s like saying that ..kid’s will be kids..better we let then do it knowing :p the way you bring up your kids is very important if you let them party and have a bf/gf then it just leads to more problems and troubles…
I’ll give myself as an example..:P I was raised as a Muslim because my Parents are very very strict about religion :P my habits and my thinking are also greatly influenced by my mum and dad…I know what’s wrong and what’s right…I mean everyone can tell the difference between wrong and right but …THE EXTENT is what counts like what I may consider as wrong may not be what someone more azzad then me considers as wrong and that is because of my parents and all the thing’s that I have picked up from them :P
basically if you raise your kids right …they can be outside of the norm…they wouldn’t have the need to party or go out :P :P personality/judgement is influenced by parents as well :P
so I am going to be a strict dad :P just the way I was raised :P because I know from looking at myself that it works :P
every1 has different point of views, no1 can be wrng nd thats ur point of view nd beliefs, mine r different gd luck!
point of view is point of view but when you start to read the quran lol and it forbids some point of views then what happens ? :P just food for thought
good luck to u 2
for ur info i’ve read Holy quran over over and over again but sill ma point of view hasn’t changed nor it’ll
The verse from Surah Maidah
This day all good and pure things are made lawful for you and the food of the people of the Book is lawful for you, and your food is lawful for them and chaste Muslim women and chaste women from amongst those who were given the Book before you, when you give them their dowries while bringing them in bondage (through marriage) nor for lust and nor making lover (secretly) And who so becomes infidel after being a Muslim, his entire work is destroyed and he is a loser in the Hereafter.
[24:31] “And tell the believing women to subdue their eyes, and maintain their chastity. They shall not reveal any parts of their bodies, except that which is necessary. They shall cover their chests, and shall not relax this code in the presence of other than their husbands, their fathers, the fathers of their husbands, their sons, the sons of their husbands, their brothers, the sons of their brothers, the sons of their sisters, other women, the male servants or employees whose sexual drive has been nullified, or the children who have not reached puberty. They shall not strike their feet when they walk in order to shake and reveal certain details of their bodies. All of you shall repent to GOD, O you believers, that you may succeed.”
[24:32] “You shall encourage those of you who are single to get married. They may marry the righteous among your male and female servants, if they are poor. GOD will enrich them from His grace. GOD is Bounteous, Knower”
[24:29] “You commit no error by entering uninhabited homes wherein there is something that belongs to you. GOD knows everything you reveal, and everything you conceal. “
It’s not a point of view it’s the reality
i’ve read da quran nd know da meanin’ too still….well da thing is i’m not 2 religious
I also did grow up here, between the dutch people..
culture and faith was always importhant in our familie, and they are very strict.. but in a good way
I mean, if u tell your child to not do something.. they will think.. hmm why not, why do they not allow me to do that,, ( and what happens , they get curious and will try it ).
But if you explain your child whats the reason behind it, they wil understand why u say that.
In our familie there is balance between stuff.. , like when i was a little kid, i used to go swimming and did get all my swimming diploms, but afther that, they did explain me that its not right anymore,.. and the same with clothes.
the more older u get, just like Rogue said, ‘’ you will know whats right and wrong ‘’ ,
and for us muslims , that live in non muslim country’s.. u should just have your limits
When you get older and understand whats right and whats not, u don’t need to ask every little thing to your parents, cause u already know the answere yourself.
In my opinion u have freedom when your parents trust you,
when they trust you when your not home, at a party, with friends or home alone
loooooooool what a LIFE story, :P —> conclusion , i would also rase up my childrens like this
exactly merjan, ma parents always trusted me nd i never cross da limit cuz i9 wats ri8 & wrng
roze madaro aval be mumani khodam tabrik migam badesh be tamame madaraye in donya mobarak bad
awwww saara jaanii how would u describe urself as a (parents)mum ?would u be a strict mum or…..?
Well it never crossed my mind nor I’ve never thought about parenting, my parents were very strict and religious in keeping Islamic/Afghan tradition ( especially my mother)….I lived the I wanted it but I never hurt their feeling or did anything that they’d feel ashamed anyways, strict parenting is more beneficial for a children but sometimes balanced of permissive and strict parenting what works best
Zabrina will be the best mum ever :d
merci moo joon do you think so ?
Yeah I do think so
then thanks alot moo joon
how about yourseslf? moo joon will you be strict or more like permissive?
Well ill be not too strict & permissive just normal lol
just normal h m m m your children will be very lucky
Lol being strict its not good for childrens health
how does strict parenting affects their health ?
There many things can affect on them
They may start thinking
They may run away from home
They might socide
They may start smoking
These kind of things