vidagak - 3 years ago

I NeEd HeLp!


I’m a Sunni girl and I love a Shia boy. We have been in a very good relationship since 4 years and now when we want to get marry, but my parents don’t accept him for only one reason that he is Shia. I just want to know two things 1.Should I go against my parents’ discussion and marry him?  

2. Can a Sunni girl marry a Shia boy?

can someone help me please!!!!!  

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  • you can find millions of Mr Right Guy but you cont find another mum and dad.

     

  • listen lady!
    its nothing big to marry a shia boy but there are certain things that you need to settle before you marry.First of all you need to ask him that will he have any objections if you pray the way sunnis pray or follow the sunni version of Islam. secondly you need to ask that to which version would your children belong. what ever his answers are you should tell them to your parents so that they have a better picture before them. then its up to you to decide whether you are you want to obey what they say or do what you want, but personally speaking, your parents have been through this stage and they have the experience as they themselves have got married long time ago.
    I hope it is of some help to you, but seriously,do ask that boy the questions that I have mentioned before, for your own good!

     

  • Thank you very much! Guys my problem is solved now

     

  • can i ask u how?

     

  • Yeah sure
    my parents finally changed their minds and accepted my decision :-)

     

  • WOW khubesh :)

     

  • I’m really happy for you vida jan and congrats ;)

     

  • thank you so much BaIu jan and Qandolak Jan

     

  • Inshallah hamiseh khosbakht, moafaq wa khoshal bashin ba ham.

    I wish you all the best vidagak

     

  • wow namekhoda da i janaket farsit cheqa khub as :-)

     

  • merci merjan jani

     

  • yes you can Marry him!

     

  • Hey why not you know there is no major diference between Suni and shite ….....

    we should think only one that that both are muslims….... when Islam came so it romove that two words (shite and suni)

    there are many couples who are suni and shite but they are living together and they are so happy

    Islam allow this when Isalm allow it that is no question will remain>>>>>>>> it is answered okay you can

    If your family realy like you and take care of you they must agree with your selection

    wish you have a nice life

    Regards,

     

     

     

     

  • Dear Mr Reza

    we accept that both are one muslim but u know there are lots of defferences in shia and sonii so we must be carefull about this…...

     so if we say about islam Mohammad SAW was the last prophit in islam and he has the sunna so every muslim should follow him i dont say that the others are not right they are also right we respect them all and we believe in all but Mohammad SAW is the last and muslims should follow his way

    and you dont say for Vida that if her family love her so they should let her do this its something which can make her against her family and this is not good we are afghan we shuld respect what our famil says coz they are for our good not for our bad OK what they choose that is the most correct one everyone should obay this…....

     thanks

     

    SaMeeR

     

  • congrats am really happy for u

     

  • bevor you marry you should know,if he wants you to become shia..

     

    and you know my mum was suni and my dad was shia when they married but after i was born my mum  became shia to,because she liked  it.

     

  • THis is funny .

     

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    ahah , 

    Pas chi fekr kerdi?

     

  • Fikir kadom ka da Randomnes threat qasa moft gofta shawa ha: )

     

  • i sugest you do not waste you’r time marry him as soon as you can lol

     

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