I’m a Sunni girl and I love a Shia boy. We have been in a very good relationship since 4 years and now when we want to get marry, but my parents don’t accept him for only one reason that he is Shia. I just want to know two things 1.Should I go against my parents’ discussion and marry him?  

2. Can a Sunni girl marry a Shia boy?

can someone help me please!!!!!  


Comments


wife-hunter
wife-hunter 4 years ago

you can find millions of Mr Right Guy but you cont find another mum and dad.

bareach
bareach 4 years ago

listen lady!
its nothing big to marry a shia boy but there are certain things that you need to settle before you marry.First of all you need to ask him that will he have any objections if you pray the way sunnis pray or follow the sunni version of Islam. secondly you need to ask that to which version would your children belong. what ever his answers are you should tell them to your parents so that they have a better picture before them. then its up to you to decide whether you are you want to obey what they say or do what you want, but personally speaking, your parents have been through this stage and they have the experience as they themselves have got married long time ago.
I hope it is of some help to you, but seriously,do ask that boy the questions that I have mentioned before, for your own good!

vidagak
vidagak 4 years ago

Thank you very much! Guys my problem is solved now

BaIu
BaIu 4 years ago

can i ask u how?

vidagak
vidagak 4 years ago

Yeah sure
my parents finally changed their minds and accepted my decision :-)

BaIu
BaIu 4 years ago

WOW khubesh :)

Qandolak19
Qandolak19 4 years ago

I’m really happy for you vida jan and congrats ;)

vidagak
vidagak 4 years ago

thank you so much BaIu jan and Qandolak Jan

Merjan
Merjan 4 years ago

Inshallah hamiseh khosbakht, moafaq wa khoshal bashin ba ham.

I wish you all the best vidagak

BaIu
BaIu 4 years ago

wow namekhoda da i janaket farsit cheqa khub as :-)

vidagak
vidagak 4 years ago

merci merjan jani

rezanoori
rezanoori 4 years ago

yes you can Marry him!

rezanoori
rezanoori 4 years ago

Hey why not you know there is no major diference between Suni and shite ….....

we should think only one that that both are muslims….... when Islam came so it romove that two words (shite and suni)

there are many couples who are suni and shite but they are living together and they are so happy

Islam allow this when Isalm allow it that is no question will remain>>>>>>>> it is answered okay you can

If your family realy like you and take care of you they must agree with your selection

wish you have a nice life

Regards,

 

 

 

Tarin
Tarin 4 years ago

Dear Mr Reza

we accept that both are one muslim but u know there are lots of defferences in shia and sonii so we must be carefull about this…...

 so if we say about islam Mohammad SAW was the last prophit in islam and he has the sunna so every muslim should follow him i dont say that the others are not right they are also right we respect them all and we believe in all but Mohammad SAW is the last and muslims should follow his way

and you dont say for Vida that if her family love her so they should let her do this its something which can make her against her family and this is not good we are afghan we shuld respect what our famil says coz they are for our good not for our bad OK what they choose that is the most correct one everyone should obay this…....

 thanks

 

SaMeeR

afsana89
afsana89 4 years ago

congrats am really happy for u

gulemina
gulemina 4 years ago

bevor you marry you should know,if he wants you to become shia..

 

and you know my mum was suni and my dad was shia when they married but after i was born my mum  became shia to,because she liked  it.

Princelove
Princelove 4 years ago

THis is funny .

Merjan
Merjan 4 years ago

 

ahah , 

Pas chi fekr kerdi?

Princelove
Princelove 4 years ago

Fikir kadom ka da Randomnes threat qasa moft gofta shawa ha: )

moo
moo 4 years ago

i sugest you do not waste you’r time marry him as soon as you can lol

afghanxm
afghanxm 4 years ago

if you love him and then marry him as soon as you like. because no one can  stop poeple !

Geeti
Geeti 4 years ago

Tenga la mente abierta a cambiar o ser cambiado. Si la práctica de su “religión” no es un problema importante, entonces no lo convierten en uno, pero sí es necesario abordar antes de llegar demasiado serio. Eso no quiere decir que ni uno de ustedes no puede cambiar de opinión por el camino, sino una comunicación abierta sobre este tema es muy importante.!Es lamentable, pero la religión no puede ser sino parte de una relación

Just be open minded and wish you all the best vidagak

Qandolak19
Qandolak19 4 years ago

Huh?Geeti

ella no se menciona “Shai” O “sunita” es el problema en su relación…..sólo quería saber si una “sunita” de una niña puede contraer matrimonio “chiíta” niño ¿no?

Right? Vida Jan ;)

vidagak
vidagak 4 years ago

Firstly i wanna thank you all for your best wishes

Religion has never been a source of conflict in our relationship until now and i hope this will never be, we are not religious and that is why we don’t make or see any difference between Sunni & shia Geeti Jan and Qandolak Jan 

Gulemina Jan Personally, i don’t want to convert into different faith or fiqh “shia” I’m more comfortable with familiar surrounding and system plus my fiance is a very idealistic,emotional & simple person….most importantly he always does whatever i ask or say….which is great ;) 

Qandolak19
Qandolak19 4 years ago

that means u have him in Ur control, GREAT hi5 girl lol 

vidagak
vidagak 4 years ago

Hi5 qandolak but, I’m not controlling him nor i wanna do that

Geeti
Geeti 4 years ago

¿Por qué estás tan decepcionado por….oh vamos, es todas las mujeres afganas sueño de tener control sobre su esposo, novio y novia! no es que todas las mujeres afganas sueño de tener control sobre su esposo, el novio y los novios

acuerdo o en desacuerdo

Qandolak19
Qandolak19 4 years ago

she is definitely right Geeti

 I’m not certain about other afghani women,but I’m kinda in between Agree and Disagree 

vidagak
vidagak 4 years ago

i totally agree with you Geeti…...Being a women is a terribly difficult task,since it consists principally in dealing with men

 

 

 

Qandolak19
Qandolak19 4 years ago

If your totally agree with Geeti Jan then why did you got disappointed for?

vidagak
vidagak 4 years ago

nothing no te preocupes yo no estaba decepcionado

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