Romall - 2 years ago

Courtship and Dating in Islam


“Dating” as it is currently practiced in much of the world does not exist among Muslims. Young Muslim men and women (or boys and girls) do not enter into one-on-one intimate relationships, spending time alone together, “getting to know each other” in a very deep way before deciding whether that’s the person they will marry. Rather, in Islam pre-marital relationships of any kind between members of the opposite sex is forbidden.

The choice of a marriage partner is one of the most important decisions a person will make in his or her lifetime. It should not be taken lightly, nor left to chance or hormones. It should be taken as seriously as any other major decision in life – with prayer, careful investigation, and family involvement.

 

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  • ..........lol…..............

     

  • when everone lives together in a small vilege the practicality of arrange marriage is possible. In to days world arrange marriage is not an easy option. Muslim must keep a physical distance but maintain a verbale contact in order to find the right person. For as long as the minds are not in wrong direction this should not be a major problem.

     

  • what about ( wida samad zai ) and ( wafa bin laden ) are these tow muslim girl never ever go to dating with same farangi it all ?

     

  • wafa bin ladin . muslim girl in dating wiht farangi . she is bin ladin niece .

     

  • dating in Muslim country are much much moire then america and europa – but in secret . the daughter of Ahmad sha baba abdali and they other one is the niece of usma bin ladin in great mode .

     

  • dating in Muslim country are much much moire then america and europa ….. 

    Maikia and Faimia ,,   have you ever been to America?? , have you heard about teen age stories and nurseries in high schools ,,, why don’t you just accept the fact

    wat do you mean by posting some videos and do you know that she is NOT a Muslim & for Non Muslims its just a part of their life’s ,,, it could be the same with you … and let me tell you something you better stop your nonsense about somebody that you don’t know anything about them ,,,  do you know who was King Ahmad Shah !!!!!!  

     

  • Rommal my brother
    these are the kaffir crew
    who hates islam they are not even afghans by God they cant even speak dari or pashtoo they speak panjabi lol
    while debating me i have refuted them humiliated them over and over and over again and i shall continue inshallah
    faimai
    daikundi
    mikaiwali
    zarmatai
    they are all the same crew
    the kaffir crew the army of shaitan
    not only against afghans but against islam itslf
    they lie on every statement of them
    when you ask for evidences then they start filth and start swearing lol

     

  • have nothing to do with me all this people name .. iam alhamdulellah muslim  . but your SISTER  WAFA DARFUR BINLADIN  dating farangi  in new york  and your other SISTER  VIDA SAMAD ZAI show off she is bob with red bikini in world stage . and now your not in Afghanistan or Pakistan may your  GREAT DAD MARRIAGE YOUR BEAUTY FULL SISTER WITH AMERICAN MILITARY MAN  this is all going to happen .. me i don’t know . anshallah woa tala iam goin to HAJ this Eid . is it any problem for you .  in grace of Allah i am only afghan and nothing ells . walikum as slam .

     

  • dating in Muslim country are much much moire then america and europa ….. 

    Maikia and Faimia ,,   have you ever been to America?? , have you heard about teen age stories and nurseries in high schools ,,, why don’t you just accept the fact

    wat do you mean by posting some videos and do you know that she is NOT a Muslim & for Non Muslims its just a part of their life’s ,,, it could be the same with you … and let me tell you something you better stop your nonsense about somebody that you don’t know anything about them ,,,  do you know who was King Ahmad Shah !!!!!!  

     

    sir :

     iam living in America .  but is it not means that iam American , alhamdullelah that iam Muslim and fighting for Islam . but this girl are Muslim too and you know mr usama bin laden ? and you know also that Mrs vida samad zai is belong to family of amirulmumenin mulah omar or may be aham,d sha abdali .  i f we go correct path to find out about Islamic relationship of women and man , then we go other face of subject . other ways we with small knowledge going to abuse Islam .also with this typ of topic you show your stand against other religion and faith as well that this is not correct .

     

  • have you heard about teen age stories and nurseries in high schools ,,, why don’t you just accept the fact

     

     

    look mister !

     

    in America and Canada sex education is going on in every school and high school  even in same high school you can find a box of condom in door of school  . so in stead of  have a secret affair with your family member like Arab world or in other word Islamic world , you better have really sex with enjoyment with your best friends and this is safe too . now the religion put he is chain of law to nick of people pines is it un fair  . you not need to get involve to any matter of humanity or there business . i believe educated people are more close to God and he is way of life in stead of Muslim who never saw the face of school . 

     

  • have nothing to do with me all this people name .. iam alhamdulellah muslim  . but your SISTER  WAFA DARFUR BINLADIN  dating farangi  in new york  and your other SISTER  VIDA SAMAD ZAI show off she is bob with red bikini in world stage . and now your not in Afghanistan or Pakistan may your  GREAT DAD MARRIAGE YOUR BEAUTY FULL SISTER WITH AMERICAN MILITARY MAN  this is all going to happen .. me i don’t know . anshallah woa tala iam goin to HAJ this Eid . is it any problem for you .  in grace of Allah i am only afghan and nothing ells . walikum as slam .

     IN THIS STATEMENT OF YOURS YOU SHOW THAT YOU ARE MUSLIM MASHALLAH THAT IS GOOD EVERY MUSLIM IS OUR BROTHER BUT WAIT 

     

    look mister !

     

    in America and Canada sex education is going on in every school and high school  even in same high school you can find a box of condom in door of school  . so in stead of  have a secret affair with your family member like Arab world or in other word Islamic world , you better have really sex with enjoyment with your best friends and this is safe too . now the religion put he is chain of law to nick of people pines is it un fair  . you not need to get involve to any matter of humanity or there business . i believe educated people are more close to God and he is way of life in stead of Muslim who never saw the face of school . 

     

    IN THIS STATEMENT OF YOURS YOU ENCOURAGE PPL TO HAVE SEX ?

    WHO DOES THAT? SHAITAN  DONT YOU  KNOW THAT SHAITAN WANTS US TO HAVE ILLEGAL SEX ? AND THAT IS EXACTLY WHAT YOU ARE DOING AND YOU CLAIM ISLAM?

    AND YOU CLAIM ITS SAFE TO? LOL 

    JUST LOOK AROUND YOU WHERE SHOW ME THE STATCIS WHICH COUNTRY HAS MORE AIDS? MORE S.T.D (SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASES )

    WHY DONT WE LOOK AT THE RAP AND OTHER SEXUAL ASSAULTS IN AMERICA 

    THEN YOU CAN EVEN COMPARE IT WITH THE MUSLIM WORLD

    SO YOU BELIEVE EDUCATED PPL ARE MORE CLOSE TO GOD THEN THE MUSLIMS?

    SHAITAN WAS EDUCATED AS WELL AS A MATTER OF FACT HE WAS THE BEST 

    ABU JAHAL WAS EDUCATED TOO  

    WHILE THE PROPHET DIDNT KNOW HOW TO READ OR WRITE 

    ARE YOU SAYING THAT SHAITAN AND ABU JAHAL WAS MORE CLOSE TO GOD THEN THE PROPHET? WOE TO YOU

    and you claim islam?oh wait you are muslim Allahmdulillah lol 

    look at your contradiction you contradict yourself in every statement of yours 

    and you claim islam 

    islam is the religion of submission it has nothing to do with usama or samad zai or abdullah or whomever 

    if you chose to follow and accept you are muslim 

    and you chose to just disbelieve and ignore then you are kaffir

    samad zai or whomever it is maybe chose to not follow or not accept 

    what does that have to do with any thing?? nothing what kinda of an example is this lol 

     

     

     

  • now lets see the american crime rate

     

     

    1 out of every 6 American women has been the victim of an attempted or completed rape in her lifetime (14.8% completed rape; 2.8% attempted rape).1

     

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    1 out of every 6 American women has been the victim of an attempted or completed rape in her lifetime (14.8% completed rape; 2.8% attempted rape).1

    17.7 million American women have been victims of attempted or completed rape.1

     

     

    Lifetime rate of rape /attempted rape for women by race:1
    • All women: 17.6%
    • White women: 17.7%
    • Black women: 18.8%
    • Asian Pacific Islander women: 6.8%
    • American Indian/Alaskan women: 34.1%
    • Mixed race women: 24.4%

    Men

    About 3% of American men — or 1 in 33 — have experienced an attempted or completed rape in their lifetime.1

    • In 2003, 1 in every ten rape victims were male.2
    • 2.78 million men in the U.S. have been victims of sexual assault or rape.1

    Children

    15% of sexual assault and rape victims are under age 12.3

    • 29% are age 12-17.
    • 44% are under age 18.3
    • 80% are under age 30.3
    • 12-34 are the highest risk years.
    • Girls ages 16-19 are 4 times more likely than the general population to be victims of rape, attempted rape, or sexual assault.

    7% of girls in grades 5-8 and 12% of girls in grades 9-12 said they had been sexually abused.4

    • 3% of boys grades 5-8 and 5% of boys in grades 9-12 said they had been sexually abused.

    In 1995, local child protection service agencies identified 126,000 children who were victims of either substantiated or indicated sexual abuse.5

    • Of these, 75% were girls.
    • Nearly 30% of child victims were between the age of 4 and 7.

    93% of juvenile sexual assault victims know their attacker.6

    • 34.2% of attackers were family members.
    • 58.7% were acquaintances.
    • Only 7% of the perpetrators were strangers to the victim.

    Victims of sexual assault are:7

    3 times more likely to suffer from depression.

    6 times more likely to suffer from post-traumatic stress disorder.

    13 times more likely to abuse alcohol.

    26 times more likely to abuse drugs.

    4 times more likely to contemplate suicide.

     

    Pregnancies Resulting from Rape

    In 2004-2005, 64,080 women were raped.8 According to medical reports, the incidence of pregnancy for one-time unprotected sexual intercourse is 5%. By applying the pregnancy rate to 64,080 women, RAINN estimates that there were 3,204 pregnancies as a result of rape during that period.

     

    References
    1. National Institute of Justice & Centers for Disease Control & Prevention. Prevalence, Incidence and Consequences of Violence Against Women Survey. 1998.
    2. U.S. Department of Justice. 2003 National Crime Victimization Survey. 2003.
    3. U.S. Department of Justice. 2004 National Crime Victimization Survey. 2004.
    4. 1998 Commonwealth Fund Survey of the Health of Adolescent Girls. 1998.
    5. U.S. Department of Health & Human Services, Administration for Children and Families. 1995 Child Maltreatment Survey. 1995.
    6. U.S. Bureau of Justice Statistics. 2000 Sexual Assault of Young Children as Reported to Law Enforcement. 2000.
    7. World Health Organization. 2002.
    8. U.S. Department of Justice. 2005 National Crime Victimization Survey. 2005.
     

    can you compare this to the islamic world? never
     one must be a fool to even compare this 

     

     

     

     

     

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     look mister !

     

    in America and Canada sex education is going on in every school and high school  even in same high school you can find a box of condom in door of school  . so in stead of  have a secret affair with your family member like Arab world or in other word Islamic world , you better have really sex with enjoyment with your best friends and this is safe too . now the religion put he is chain of law to nick of people pines is it un fair  . you not need to get involve to any matter of humanity or there business . i believe educated people are more close to God and he is way of life in stead of Muslim who never saw the face of school . 

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    OW BOY, whats wrong with you???

     

    First you say your Moslim, well shokr, .. but then you say this!!! are you SURE your an MOSLIM and believe in ALLAH swt?,

    serieusly , how can you say its beter to have real sex with enjoyment with your best friends and its safe too???

    and you believe educated people are more close to god, ... ?? are you talking about Allah swt?? Think your not, because your wrong, VERY WRONG.  

    Do you even know what Islam is, what Moslim is? do you read , do you EVEN  understand what you read?? ...... ... everything you say is SO WRONG.  

     

      i believe educated people are more close to God and he is way of life in stead of Muslim who never saw the face of school . 

     you say your moslim, but then you say .. instead of muslim who never saw the face of school.??? 

     what u mean? , you think we muslim never did see a school? that we are not educated?, then what am I , what are WE, ...

     

    ow boy ow boy,  .... 

      

    God saw me hungry, he created pizza.
    He saw me thirsty, he created Pepsi.
    He saw me in dark, he created light.

    He saw me whitout headache, he created YOU 

     

     

    ahahahah , lol  

     

  • God saw me hungry, he created pizza.
    He saw me thirsty, he created Pepsi.
    He saw me in dark, he created light.

    He saw me whitout headache, he created YOU 

     

     

    ahahahah , lol 

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    LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOLZ OMG You’re Hilarious Merjan  (L)

     

  • suppose doctor is an educated person , and he is the one who play with body part of human nearly every day . and he know better then any one ells that there’s same one who create this complected body and sole and totally human . now suppose that’s why God say that before knowing ME you should be know your self , now how many of you know your self perfectly . at least drunk and Sabrina and this imam who ask about Islamic friendship .. don’t know him self at all . i ask you that late God introduce him self and defense him as well . now about shitan or Stan i have idea that  he is the one who teach all human being to stand for there right and fight for it .  i means he is the one who teach every one in this world about how to be free and how to live a life in complete freedom . now Stan have no any interfering with Islamic law and order  but this is religion that hate same one and accept same one . if i am wrong than why Jew and Muslim not shake hand and kiss each other . or in other word what if we take out the uniform of religion from body of Muslim and Jew in the same time and we well see that there’s no more war in between . i means we are going to change both to an human . and i am sure that you know the  human being relation ship is full of love and respect and friendship and they never going to abuse each other . this is for now . 

     

  • marjani  :

     

      God saw me hungry, he created pizza.
    He saw me thirsty, he created Pepsi.
    He saw me in dark, he created light.

    He saw me whitout headache, he created YOU  

     

    ahahahah ,

     

    lol   is it great ,  sweet heart  love you   . . . lol ..   sorry for headache  .. cant stop laughing . . hoo my gash . .

     

  • hi mister dabang !

     

    i no ask you about history of crime in united stat .  i know what s going on here .what i ask you that make your self an educated Muslim . marjani love you . . do you know this .. few day before she told me  .    happy . dance now .

     

  • How did you know my name? ohh wait a second daikundi ( I meant you)  did asked my name in PM long time ago….. so what happened to ur parents? did you found out anything them? lol
     

     

  • sabarin !

    i read all post and all web sit since few day . . in one place  same one call you  Sabrina and then i understand that this is your name .  is it any things is wrong? ..

     

  • isn’t sabarin its SABRINA JAN! and No there’s nothing wrong  btw why didn’t you answer my question?

     

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